In many ways we strive to get to our vision of a perfect life, or as close as we can get to it.
For me that means perfectly organized everything and meaningful and fulfilling relationships.
The thing is, I think it's fairly simple when you're still on the road towards those goals. It's easy to clean out the closet and do a massive makeover. Easy to start a conversation and make a new friend.
What's difficult is keeping that closet in perfect condition once it's organized and keeping in touch with that friend. It takes constant ongoing attention.